43. The Recovery  

Posted by Dr. Dheena Sadik in , ,

Going through a post- break up Syndrome? Well, You are still awesome! Don't let the break up demon consume the BEST in You. After all, it already broke a bond you created, shared and valued. Dust it off. You owe the optimism to yourself. Its never easy if you had genuinely put in the extra effort in creating that covalent bond, tolerating warts and nursing wounds. As you recover you would be amazed how much strength you still have saved deep within your soul. It only makes you a more tolerant soldier in the bittersweet war we sugar-coat as love.

Remember, at this point your age simply does NOT matter! You maybe 19, 47 or 69; You still deserve to turn over a new leaf. A fresh start, another chance to be appreciated. Believe in yourself and be determined, once again you will be blessed with a worthy palm to hold and a warm shoulder to cry on. Everyone deserves to be loved and admired. Remember, nobody from Adam to Doom's Day will ever be perfect. Love is neither limited by age nor external beauty. It is an essential entity everyone needs till their last breathe, although some maybe too victimized via bitter experiences to admit this. May everyone be loved for the right reasons.

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Breaking up is never easy. But, keep in mind that your destiny awaits for you when and where your least expecting it. Live each day to the fullest. Tammy

June 27, 2009 at 5:28 PM

Nice advice for those going through it. got anything about unemployment in here, *smile*

June 27, 2009 at 5:47 PM

Tammy- Yes indeed, Expect the unexpected.

June 27, 2009 at 6:06 PM

Dr Dina,

I do love your writing style. Empowering words for those in the midst of great changes.

June 27, 2009 at 6:12 PM

Could not have said it better...well put!

June 27, 2009 at 6:25 PM

Melanie + Jeannette - Thank You!

June 27, 2009 at 6:31 PM

Although is still very hard to face a break up this is really how we should react. Very good!!

June 28, 2009 at 5:07 AM

Thank You. It undoubtedly takes time to heal and then recover. Optimism and self-belief is the Key. When You get out of it head strong and shoulders back it makes a world of difference not only as how you are perceived by the world, but also how you feel about yourself.

June 28, 2009 at 2:29 PM

great work dina!!so true...every single word of it..

June 30, 2009 at 6:16 PM

Suraksha- Thank You. Nice to see old college mates here! :)

July 3, 2009 at 1:21 PM

Thanks for this one, Dina... Very true.. your writings are beautiful. :) Ingrid

July 22, 2009 at 8:38 PM

Touching one....
brilliantly written !!

August 4, 2009 at 6:40 PM

Merci Mme Dheena
Sublime vous etes et je capte tous ce que vous dites.


March 4, 2010 at 5:43 AM

thanks to u dr.Dheena! i happened to read this note jus at a time when i needed it most.

June 3, 2010 at 6:49 PM

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