" Patience, patiENCE, PATIENCE!!! "


Too often we hear the significance of patience, but rarely told the right dose of its quantity and quality. If there isn't a limit, does one remain patient till death do them part? Does it mean to remain silent at times when's opinion in 100% worthy and valid in an argument where their wisdom can't be comprehended?


Its sad how FAR some individuals can remain submissive indefinitely, hoping for change via patience. If he/ she constantly makes excuses for those who miss/ ill- treat them, this cascade is a camouflaged form of insidious suicide; and too often they realize not.


If a child was deprived of a basic education by his/ her parents how much patience can be expected? Should that child be patient till adulthood until its a tad awkward to dream of things a child or regular teenager would experience? So WHAT should such a bewildered child do assuming there was no national service to help? There are too many teenagers deprived of a tertiary education for various traditional reasons too.


How about womenfolk's freedom? Its flabbergasting how much male dominance prevails in our era. Sons are given multiple folds of freedom relative to sisters of the same age. How MUCH patience can/ should she synthesize until she gets married to another member of the similar mentality and society? So after being patient unlimited in her childhood, she now enters motherhood where she needs to manufacture an inexhaustible supply of this convenient excuse, abuse and oppression others label as patience? Some women, are patient ALL their life all the way to senility. Is this the sole purpose God blessed us with a phenomenal brain? To initiate nothing except a mute presence?


So is there an optimal dose to patience? What's next? Beyond? Any over-dose, even water causes toxicity to our system. So does that rule apply here as well? If you would dissect patience further, what does psychology, psychiatry, the law of attraction, philosophy, religion have got to say about its boundaries, depth and spectra?


True enough, there are times in life when one intellectually and sensibly needs to hold on for a suitable time or precise space via logic and reasoning. Reaping the harvest of certain seasons can only be attained at its specific time ( unless cultivated in a glass house of course, which isn't yet available on a global scale) . You can't expect an infant to run before crawling and walking obviously. However, how much is the limit? As much as God blesses the patient heart, I also believe He blessed us ALL with tools within our hearts, brains, minds and souls to help lift ourselves up when and where ever we fall. If you have been patient far too long, then it''s time to allow your courage to be your fuel to project you beyond that cliff of reasonable tolerance, the engine of our minds, to propel you forward to refine yourself rather than accommodating stagnation.

On your spiritual journey, there is only ONE rule to be followed- Keep it SIMPLE. There is a reason we grow as slowly as we do. Simply listen to your HEART. Don't compel yourself anything. Its the most natural absorption and emission of SELF, as simple as you breathe. When you try to switch habits overnight, it only created short circuits within your mind and system. So braid your path as naturally as you can, such that you don't feel a profound difference, rather slide over a practical spectrum as you grow.

At the heat of the moment we seldom realize how a particular conflict or disagreement can in reality help our growth. There are too many lessons to be learnt from the turbulence and viscosity that sail our path. As we keep constantly traveling this journey, the hurdles make us stronger physically, mentally and spiritually too. How can pinnacles of life be refined further unless they are tested? Isn’t it only reasonable they are examined as we keep progressing?

Do you think its UNFAIR some are born with a silver spoon with parents to support every step they DESIRE? While others are born with the GREATEST challenges at the expense of having to give up their ambitions ONLY because they can't AFFORD it despite having the potential it requires?

You attract that which defines your own core. Your originality needs to be attracted out of You. Just like a drop of water flowing down a leaf. As much as it hydrates its path, it dances with joy on finding other drops along its journey, these together amalgamate gradually forming a stream that trickles in delight with liberty. Don't ever under-estimate the drop of your mind. Together with like mindedness we can achieve anything our minds desire.

Why do some individuals focus SO hard on blaming someone for every problem? Is there someone to blame ALWAYS for every complication in Life? Why not conserve and utilize this energy to find a solution instead! Isn't that WAY more sensible and less energy dissipated for futility?

In reality what is the size of a rose? Is it as gigantic it was to a bee on its petal as it blossomed, as small as you saw it across the street or simply the size when its enclosed in your palm? No two individuals perceive anything 100% alike. Our intuitions are based on our individual experiences as we mature everyday. Five is less than nine, but will always be greater than two. At times we compare scenarios and dilemmas in order to fuel us with resolutions. But is this always healthy? How much does relativity damage the freedom of exploring our originality?

Going through a post- break up Syndrome? Well, You are still awesome! Don't let the break up demon consume the BEST in You. After all, it already broke a bond you created, shared and valued. Dust it off. You owe the optimism to yourself. Its never easy if you had genuinely put in the extra effort in creating that covalent bond, tolerating warts and nursing wounds. As you recover you would be amazed how much strength you still have saved deep within your soul. It only makes you a more tolerant soldier in the bittersweet war we sugar-coat as love.


Remember, at this point your age simply does NOT matter! You maybe 19, 47 or 69; You still deserve to turn over a new leaf. A fresh start, another chance to be appreciated. Believe in yourself and be determined, once again you will be blessed with a worthy palm to hold and a warm shoulder to cry on. Everyone deserves to be loved and admired. Remember, nobody from Adam to Doom's Day will ever be perfect. Love is neither limited by age nor external beauty. It is an essential entity everyone needs till their last breathe, although some maybe too victimized via bitter experiences to admit this. May everyone be loved for the right reasons.

Wherever in the globe you maybe seated right now, you probably heard “it wasn’t meant to be” at least once in your lifetime. If this is 100% true, aren’t we victims to mental captivity with very little space to explore the infinite possibilities of our talents, interests and creativity?

Every Adult is an old child. Our spirit will always remain youthful.

As each infant outgrows her dependency phase, she glides into the initiation of diverse encounters along an individual highway. Involuntary gestures and inconspicuous events along this voyage may paradoxically revolutionize into some of the most valuable and treasured moments. As the end of one facet unfolds into the beginning of another, eventually we evolve into unique irreplaceable creatures as we become what we encounter....

As I gazed across my Surgery book towards the open window, I remember the icy cold wind tingled my face. It felt so permanent, as though it would last forever, until unpleasant memories of the furnace hot summer limited the pinnacle of that moment.